It is sort of crazy really, how different domestic adoption is from Russian adoption. There are parts that are harder, like making the family profile book. I spent hours and hours and days selecting just the right photos and painfully going over every word I wrote, making sure it would sound good from all perspectives. It ended up being 22 pages, with photos and text. I am thrilled really, it turned out much better than I expected it would. It is very strange though, writing a letter to the birthmother, asking them to consider you to raise their child. Not a bad or good strange, just plain strange. Our facilitating agency AAG went through every word of it with 3 readers and suggested a few changes, but generally they were really happy with it. So $250 later, we have 8 family profile books. We looked into making copies and getting them bound, but GEEZ are color copies expensive!! But that big job is crossed off our list. We also have our home study completed (which includes a lot but only about 1/2 of Russian adoption paperwork).
In DA (domestic adoption) they use the term "situation" in referring to a "situation"...that is clearer now huh?!! What is just amazing is that we have actually had FIVE "situations" offered to us for consideration. We have declined all of them, for various reasons (drug use by BM, extremely high adoption costs etc), but we just can't believe things are happening so fast! These are all situations that are coming through our facilitator...as of this week, we hadn't even signed with an agency yet!!!
As of Friday, we did sign with an attorney in Oklamhoma, Bado and Bado. They are absolutely wonderful, strong Christians, and are adoptive parents themselves of 4. I feel great that we chose them (they were one of the suggestions from our facilitator). They have a few possible situations that they have not been matched yet, so we will see!! I can't believe that one of these days we are going to meet our little boy!!!!!!!
Tomorrow we are going to a picnic with a friend, and afterwards, we are going to go register at Babies R Us!! I wasn't sure if I needed to do that, but she encouraged me to do it, so that's what we are going to do!! I am soo excited..it will be so much fun!!!!!! :)